We've been in serious birthday celebration mode here, with all four of our birthdays within the span of less than two months. Eli turned two and Noah four. Much as spending our days with them are intense and emotional (oh the emotional roller coaster of being 2 and 4), it's a huge privilege to spend them mostly together.
Eugene has just finished his first children's book (check out www.ebadams.com if you have kids/know people with kids?) and I am still working hard on my dissertation. Every year seems to bring big changes for all of us- seeing Noah and Eli grow makes that a given, but it also seems to be our MO.
Some pictures from Eli's birthday present-opening time:
|Noah speaking to his grandma in Korea. Eli has his name tag from church (where he refuses to stay by himself, anyway) not because we forget his name, though sometimes I do.|
|Noah spent ages writing this and painting a train for Eli's birthday|
|Getting acrylic paints for Noah works better for us than getting large bottles of kid paint. They last pretty well, and Noah invests a lot of time and effort into painting. The downside is that it's hard to paint when Eli is awake, as he paints the walls, his stomach, anything he can find. |
|Jelly beans for breakfast.|
Eli's birthday trip to the Blue Train
Our kids take the regular Cape Town train pretty regularly, but we'd never taken this toy train at Sea Point. For R15, you get to go around in a circle for 5 minutes in a very run down rickety train. That is, Noah and Eli's idea of heaven.
|Noah wanted to ride up front with the driver. I was amazed that he was willing to be in a compartment with someone he didn't know. He managed for a little bit, and then started to freak out.|
|The Blue train also has an amazing playground, full of interesting places to climb and play.|
|the foofie slide. |
|My aunt and uncle were visiting from Pretoria and staying nearby, and were able to come and visit with us. |
Noah turned four!
|Asleep on the return journey. Too much excitement.|
|Last year, for Noah's third birthday, we got him this 1/8 size violin. I was a little more invested than he in the whole idea- learning violin was a big gift my parents gave me, and that I wanted to pass on. I let it be, and later in the year Noah asked me to start teaching him. I got my own violin fixed, and now about 5 days a week, for about 5-10 minutes/day, we practice plucking and tuning the violin, and learning to hold the bow correctly. Violin is our attempt at classical education, while this year's gift of a ukulele takes more of an unschooling approach. We sortof like both approaches, to the extent the kids are currently very curious and open to all kinds of learning.|
With the whole family at my parent's house:
|Our bike ride back... Not bad (note Eli asleep on tarp)|
|Noah's actual birthday- cake #2|
Noah asked to go to the Playshed, an indoor playground for his birthday:
|Noah got a ukulele for his birthday, and Eug's book came out, which is a pretty great birthday present.|
Last year I gave my kids 1/8 size violins. They never stayed playable for more than one second because the bridges kept falling off, and because as soon as they even touched the tuning pegs all tension came out of the string. Also they broke both bows using them as guns. We don't try any classical education, apparently. This year I'm giving them Eukaleles, I bought lovely blue and red ones from Land of Nod that they'll get next month on Harvey's birthday. Hopefully they're less crappy then the Amazon violins. All that is to say, good on you for doing better than I did in the music department.
Your violins sound like lemons! Violin for me is something that I have to teach, so it's good in a way because it helped to articulate some of the ways I'm not going to unschool. We're not exactly teaching Latin, but I guess we're still finding our way on the continuum of What is Important to Know. Noah likes violin because it's real and tangible and something Adults Do. But it's slow, it takes a long time to see results,
Ukelele already seems much more amenable to experimentation - there may be a right way to do things but I sure don't know it, so we're all learning together. For both, we got proper high quality instruments, second hand, but that's partially because nothing is really cheap here.
Post a Comment